People are so complicated but we try out best to understand them. I should think that females are more susceptible to this and want to know more so as to show concern towards their friends. So they are labelled as being "nosey" or "kaypoh" and I think, most girls feel that they can change someone they care about for the better. I don't think that people can change that easily unless they truly want to. It's like quitting smoking; no one can do it for you, you have to want to quit on your own no matter how much your friends and family beg and plead. This is why I don't waste my breath on my smoking friends. If they truly want to quit, I can show them support and assist as much as I possibly can.

I always want to know my friends well. I wish to understand how they think and why they act the way they do. Maybe it's something like psychology and similar to how Keong analyzes the behaviour of others. However, this is not possible if the other party doesn't share his/her thoughts and emotions. Of course, I can't be unreasonable and force them to do so. Plus I realize that the more I dig, the less I get and occasionally, the less I understand. I think it's time to stop asking and stop questioning because the more I hear, the more unhappy I get. I wish I had not been so bloody concerned and judgemental in the first place. Now I think I might have taken the wrong step, said the wrong things, thought the wrong thoughts and trusted the wrong person. I don't want to know, ask or understand anymore and I will keep my distance from that person.